What are some tips or anecdotes about dating a single mother with children?
I јυѕt ѕtаrtеd dating hеr maybe a small more thаn a month ago. Shе hаѕ two young family, a 2-year-ancient son аnd a 5-year-ancient daughter. Sο far іt hаѕ bееn fun tο hang out wіth hеr аnd thе kids. I аm јυѕt wondering іf thеrе аrе anythings I ѕhουld look out fοr οr аnу tаlеѕ I саn draw frοm. I lіkе hеr a lot.
Now, I’m not saying this would happen. I’m going to clarify what’s happened to *me* in this situation.
I like kids and have none. I have been in relationships with several “mothers” (milfs- lol). I bonded with *all* their kids. They were *all* awesome! And I miss most of them. Now, I’m sure it goes both ways, too. I’m sure they miss *me*, as well. But it absolutely did not work-out with any of them. Else, I’d still be there.
I estimate what I’m getting at is that if you were to ever separate yourself from this female, you may possibly do some hurt, for the long haul, with these kids, if you get too close to them. But that’s life! Right?
In fact, about 2-3 years ago, I was going to see one of my women (at the time) and there were a bunch of teenagers out front. Hers and I estimate some neighbor teens. A few more than typical. So, I get out of my car and head toward the door (downtown/city background). On of them stands up and says, “Steve?!?? Steve T*******?!??” I said, “yeah?” He said, “It’s *me*! Joey!” … I didn’t reflect much of it and did not recognize him. “Don’t you remember me?!??” I said, “ummm… uhhh… You *look* a small familiar, but ummm… No?” He then proceeded to tell me he was J**** K*****’s son. I was blown away!!! OMG!!! Last time I saw this kid, he was knee high to me. I wanted to crumple up into a tin-foil ball and roll under the car(s). He was very excited to see me, cos we were sweet tight when I was with his mother (30 miles away). They went to *this* neighborhood. (tiny-tiny-world) We went for coffee, hung out and chilled. And let me tell you, “WoW!” If I never left her mother, how different he (and probably me) would be.
Sorry my answer is sssO long. I’m killing time while *my* question *might* be in the answer process. I’m having web-design distress.
OK… Excellent luck with the release mother. You’re alright. Don’t worry about anything. Just treat ‘em right and one of the kids may be converted into a millionaire and take care of you when you’re ancient.
Excellent luck!