long distance relationships do they work?
Sο i аm falling іn lіkе wіth thе perfect guy fοr mе. Thе οnlу problem іѕ thаt hе lives іn Scotland аnd i live іn Texas, USA. Hе іѕ 18 аnd i аm 17 аnd i wе саn’t glіdе tο each οthеr cause wе don’t hаνе enough money.
Wе talk οn webcam аnd wе text аnd email. I wаѕ јυѕt wanting tο know іf long distance relationships еνеr work out? Please nο public saying hе mіght bе a 40 year ancient pedifial οr anything lіkе thаt cause hе іѕ nοt.
no
yes they work, it is right like.
If he’s not cheating on you or reverse. but its hard to know, there’s a limit to how much you really know about that person. It might work.
No
never, dont evn bother its either u meet anotha guy or he meet anotha grl… life
yeperoodle they work! theyre the best kind of relatioiship. and the best part is you can cheat on them and they wont even know. you go girl!
yes they do work if you make them if you like each other then you can make it work
ive been with my girlfriend online for over 2 months but ive known her for 7
were hoping to get married
when you have enough money or you guys may possibly place your money together so one of you can travel to the other
well they dont really work out cause you never know what he is doing behimd your back. even tho her might not do anything. and anyways i know this one couple and he lives in AZ and she lives in CA and they see each other about every weekend because her mom is a pilot and she gets free air fares. so i dont reflect a long distance relationship will work because you cant see him like you would a normal boyfriend
yes they work im in one and have been for 1 year and 1/2 now, and i know hes not cheating. if you trust him they will work!
excellent luck
oh btw im 14 and my bfs 16 and he only lives 30 min. away but still its long distance
for me, they never work.
that’s just my experience so i don’t waste my time on them. but if you really feel that it may possibly work and you trust him enough, it might work out. just be careful.
ugh… that’s a hard one.. but i would have to say they CAN work, it just depends on if hes the right guy! so i really hope it works out for you in the end, and excellent luck.
ur safe if u hv toked to him over the webcam, but still not 100% safe. cos he may be reading out the dialogues at the back and divulging some other guy, younger or older, to lip sync for him. i know it sounds crazy, but we have to consider all possibilities, right? with all its a topic abt ur life. so play it safe. dont trust anyone whom u hv not met, be it even if u hv seen him or her on the webcam. anything is doable. protect urself. long distance relationships, in most hand baggage, i wud say, atleast 95% hand baggage, fails. this is cos the ability to sustain oneself from meeting the other, goes away wid the passage of time. so my information for u wud be to back out.
Well, except you met each other in real life and not online, and then under some circumstance had to go away from each other, that’s the only time a long distance relationship is really viable.
Except you really got to know each other in person, there’s really not much point in pursuing this. It’s simpler to talk to someone over the internet, but if you spent that time talking to public where you live, you’d fine guys that are really nice too.
And, except you have enough money to make trips to see each other every few months, there really is no point. o_O Unfortunately.
I’m in a long distance relationship right now between Toronto and Singapore, so I am not just talking out of my ass. I know how these things work heheh. You should have met him first, and THEN pursued a LD relationship, you’re going about it the incorrect way. Keep up with him as buddies or pen pals or whatever, but because of the fact that nothing physical will happen, just find someone wherever you live, it’s much more satisfying.
depends on how they live…
Probably not for the long term. I reflect of long distance in terms of 3 or 4 hours separation. Still, you have the possibility of the future. Maybe, a holiday together. Or attending same college. The youth factor makes your chances greater, than the percentage would be if you were both settled into a career. Hope it works out for both of you. Delight in what you have.
I’m sure there are incidences where they ever have worked, but—
With no history of an in-person”, physical relationship, I would say it would be very, very hard to make a long distance relationship work. If you had met in person, developed a relationship and then were separated, it would d be hard. Without this foundation, I would say it would next to impossible. Especially at your age, you both should be enjoying the physical companionship of one another. I reflect you’ll find that both of you, over time, are going to want to delight in having someone you can kiss, hug, hold hands with, etc. As long as you are set to either give or receive a webcam-based or email break-up, I wouldn’t place all of my emotional eggs in this basket.
They can work but you have to make them work.
Im in a LDR with my girlfriend (she lives in NV, USA + I live in England). Its worked for us but it is not simple at times. You have to talk alot (I speak to her everyday – no exception).
We try to see each other every few months but you disobediently need to look at meeting if you haven’t met before. I met my girlfriend online and when we met (i flew there) I was so nervous but let me say it was magical.
Tell your boyfriend to get skype and he can call your phone for 1p (a penny) a small if your not at home. Dont let anyone tell you it wont work or else it WILL fail. If you both want it then it will work just be VERY patient.
I trust my girlfriend and she trusts me – theres no differencee between long and fleeting distance relationship as they both need trust. Not everyone is the same – there are some genuine public out there. Excellent Luck and I hope it works out for you.