For me the LDR has only worked when both parties are completely apparent with their feelings, thoughts and desires upon the start of the relationship. The relationship must be really exclusive, committed and monogamous…and communication is a MUST….eventually you’ll get to a point at which someone is going to have to go….the time desk is different for everyone….you’ll know when you get there and it’s time to take action…
me personally i reflect that if I was dating the person and they had to go off or i had to go off for some reason then I reflect i may possibly do it, I don’t reflect that I may possibly do it for a very long amount of time. I don’t reflect that it should always be long distance because that would have to be hard to always be like that & sometimes you want somewhere there so I reflect eventually you have to merge the lives together.
If you guys really like each other, then you can make it work. As far as how long you should wait until one of you go, I don’t reflect you should place a time limit on it. Just do it when it feels right or when you can’t take living apart any longer lol. Do you guys ever visit each other? I reflect it’s vital to try to see each other as much as you can..
And stop getting information from these jaded public lol
I’ve done it. And I feel when you do this you have make a dates of when you feel the next level is. Such as who is moving where? Or go to a new house for both of you. ( that’s what we did) With a year decisions have to made or cheating starts Cheating does not mean sex only but having a companion to do things with. Being together is so different especially if it was net dating. Please feel free to contact me with questions…i have tons of answers.
so how is your ldr going now?
For me the LDR has only worked when both parties are completely apparent with their feelings, thoughts and desires upon the start of the relationship. The relationship must be really exclusive, committed and monogamous…and communication is a MUST….eventually you’ll get to a point at which someone is going to have to go….the time desk is different for everyone….you’ll know when you get there and it’s time to take action…
no except one of u plot to go closer to the other excellent luck to u both
me personally i reflect that if I was dating the person and they had to go off or i had to go off for some reason then I reflect i may possibly do it, I don’t reflect that I may possibly do it for a very long amount of time. I don’t reflect that it should always be long distance because that would have to be hard to always be like that & sometimes you want somewhere there so I reflect eventually you have to merge the lives together.
If you guys really like each other, then you can make it work. As far as how long you should wait until one of you go, I don’t reflect you should place a time limit on it. Just do it when it feels right or when you can’t take living apart any longer lol. Do you guys ever visit each other? I reflect it’s vital to try to see each other as much as you can..
And stop getting information from these jaded public lol
I’ve done it. And I feel when you do this you have make a dates of when you feel the next level is. Such as who is moving where? Or go to a new house for both of you. ( that’s what we did) With a year decisions have to made or cheating starts Cheating does not mean sex only but having a companion to do things with. Being together is so different especially if it was net dating. Please feel free to contact me with questions…i have tons of answers.