Dating Advice for Guy After Major Weight Loss?

Nearly typical guy, 30, very successful. Bееn overweight аll life long аnd never formally out-οf-date, οr hаd a relationship. Bυt, I’ve lost a lot οf weight. Wаѕ 450 now 300 аnd wіll gο down tο 225. Women seem a lot more interested. Need hеlр figuring thіѕ out аnd whаt dating really looks lіkе. Don’t know much аbουt anything аnd need information οn dating аnd sex. Don’t want tο gο out thеrе аnd look completely stupid.

8 Responses to “Dating Advice for Guy After Major Weight Loss?”

  • Katherine W says:

    You’re not alone. A lot of public are like you.

    Start reading women’s magazines to map out how women reflect. You’ll find information columns about how women should meet men. Take the information.

    Also, if you haven’t gone to a weightwatchers meeting, go. You’ll be able to question information of the leader in private if you want, and I’ll be she will coach you.

    Don’t feel you have to rush into things. Women are usually sweet nice to men, especially older women (not teenagers). Tell a female you’re shy and not used to dating. She will probably help you out.

    Everyone worries about looking stupid: you’re not alone on that, either. Relax a small, try to do things you delight in, and keep your eye out for women who seem nice.

  • Greg says:

    call them when you’re under 200. You’ll have a better chance at a clad-looking piece of tail.

  • Quater M says:

    no man can know women

  • Feather says:

    Always make sure you get some new clothes to reflect and show off your progress , it will make you feel better, and more confident. When you look excellent, you feel excellent. Try a new hairstlyle , maybe and simply just be a nice, caring, respectable gentleman, and you should have no problems finding yourself a nice lady :) A female always likes a guy who can make her laugh too!!! But dont over do it or cheese it up too much :) Play it cool, it will happen :)

  • Mo! says:

    I would suggest that you go buy a book that discussion about dating with you have lost Weight because it doesn’t take just a few sentenses in my answer to give you an answer you have to patiently go through all the steps and congratulations about the Weight loss. the first thing you can do is google books for example DATING AFTER WEIGHT LOSS BOOK and you will see you wont regreat it and you read this book on the process of accomplishment your ideal wheight.

  • Lovejoi *L.U.V says:

    - congratulations on losing the weight!
    - anyways, i’m 93 pounds & my b/f is 295 but he’s not stout at all.
    - so to the guy who says be under 200 pounds, whatever. shut up.

    - anyways, it’s not about weight.
    - if you work on being toned & everything, you’ll be fine!
    - women like muscles. haha.

    - just remember girls like being complimented as long as its sincere.
    - don’t ever reflect a girl is too out of your league b/c open fire on see that.
    - tell yourself that you look fantastic every day & night in the mirror b/c that helps. it’s a mind thing.
    - you can always use a wing man so question your guy buddies for help!
    - & you can use thinks like myspace or other chat thingies that are safe to meet public online. you don’t have to meet up with them, you can just practice your game & stuff. lOl.
    - dress nice. don’t dress sloppy b/c i don’t know any lady who likes tall tees on average height men & jeans down to their knees.
    - also, fish for compliments. tell some public that you’ve lost weight & they’ll tell you that you look fantastic!

    - if you want any longer information, you can email me & i’ll try to help!

  • Vechie says:

    This is not something your weight loss should have initiated. First work on your self esteem and start accepting yourself for who you are in any case of how much you weigh and only then will you successfully be able to maintain an intimate relationship.

  • mommyof3 says:

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