Comments on: Can long distance relationships really work out? http://www.secondtalk.com/can-long-distance-relationships-really-work-out/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:29:21 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: debor10 http://www.secondtalk.com/can-long-distance-relationships-really-work-out/comment-page-1/#comment-582 debor10 Fri, 26 Feb 2010 17:35:28 +0000 http://www.secondtalk.com/can-long-distance-relationships-really-work-out/#comment-582 i have one im 14 shes 16 i have my doughts at times but its thriving so far i love her lol you can call it whatever you want any one can but ido and i would still love her if we werent together and do whatever i can to help i dread the day im 16 shell be 18 and its ilegal i think it could last that long because what we haves pretty consistante i have one im 14 shes 16 i have my doughts at times but its thriving so far i like her lol you can call it whatever you want any one can but ido and i would still like her if we werent together and do whatever i can to help i dread the day im 16 shell be 18 and its ilegal i reflect it may possibly last that long because what we haves sweet consistante

]]> By: M. P http://www.secondtalk.com/can-long-distance-relationships-really-work-out/comment-page-1/#comment-581 M. P Fri, 26 Feb 2010 17:19:43 +0000 http://www.secondtalk.com/can-long-distance-relationships-really-work-out/#comment-581 Yes, and they work out great! I've been in one going on 3 years March 25th. I live in NY and she lives in MO. Its tough, requires a lot of patients and even more trust. But we both couldn't be happier! Good luck!!!!!!! Yes, and they work out fantastic! I’ve been in one going on 3 years March 25th. I live in NY and she lives in MO. Its tough, requires a lot of patients and even more trust. But we both couldn’t be more pleased! Excellent luck!!!!!!!

]]> By: *•???s??•* http://www.secondtalk.com/can-long-distance-relationships-really-work-out/comment-page-1/#comment-580 *•???s??•* Fri, 26 Feb 2010 16:29:49 +0000 http://www.secondtalk.com/can-long-distance-relationships-really-work-out/#comment-580 Well, if you REALLY want your relationship to work out, then you should be able to trust him. And I know that it will be hard for you to do, but you have to trust him if you really love him. Now, to answer if LDR (Yeah, long distance relationships) can work out, my answer is that you should let the guy to be independent. No guy (or woman) likes to be controlled. Let him have his free time. If you haven't actually seen him flirt with this other girl, then you should have no problem at all. Furthermore, i think you should try and talk things out with him; let him know how you feel about this. But don't go ahead and be like "I saw you with her! YEAAH you're cheating on me. Are you? i want an answer!" because that can only make him cheat on you and get away from you. Don't question him every minute of the day. Don't ask him where was he, who was he with, what was he doing..., because that is really annoying. I understand you might want to be naive and wonder if he's cheatin on you, but don't overly do it. Don't even THINK about followin him, because he might think you really don't trust him. Have a time to hang out with YOUR friends and don't be so available to him. Hang up the phone: What I mean is, if you are calling him 24/7, STOP. Have a social life of your own. Start a class, idk, do something fun that you enjoy! Well, i hope this works out for you. Good luck =) Well, if you REALLY want your relationship to work out, then you should be able to trust him. And I know that it will be hard for you to do, but you have to trust him if you really like him.

Now, to answer if LDR (Yeah, long distance relationships) can work out, my answer is that you should let the guy to be independent. No guy (or female) likes to be controlled. Let him have his free time. If you haven’t really seen him flirt with this other girl, then you should have no problem at all. Furthermore, i reflect you should try and talk things out with him; let him know how you feel about this. But don’t go yet to be and be like “I saw you with her! YEAAH you’re cheating on me. Are you? i want an answer!” because that can only make him cheat on you and get away from you. Don’t question him every small of the day. Don’t question him where was he, who was he with, what was he doing…, because that is really annoying. I know you might want to be naive and wonder if he’s cheatin on you, but don’t overly do it. Don’t even THINK about followin him, because he might reflect you really don’t trust him. Have a time to hang out with YOUR friends and don’t be so available to him. Hang up the phone: What I mean is, if you are mission him 24/7, STOP. Have a social life of your own. Start a class, idk, do something fun that you delight in!

Well, i hope this works out for you. Excellent luck =)

]]> By: Sarina D http://www.secondtalk.com/can-long-distance-relationships-really-work-out/comment-page-1/#comment-579 Sarina D Fri, 26 Feb 2010 15:47:12 +0000 http://www.secondtalk.com/can-long-distance-relationships-really-work-out/#comment-579 yes they are. in the end they are worth it. im in one right now. and im not saying i hate it but its just not the right choice because i fight constantly with him, but i can honestly say if you love someone that you shouldnt be worried about it.. love conquers all & so your just gonna have to trust them. yes they are. in the end they are worth it. im in one right now. and im not saying i despise it but its just not the right scale because i struggle constantly with him, but i can honestly say if you like someone that you shouldnt be worried about it.. like conquers all & so your just gonna have to trust them.

]]> By: Brian T http://www.secondtalk.com/can-long-distance-relationships-really-work-out/comment-page-1/#comment-578 Brian T Fri, 26 Feb 2010 15:11:24 +0000 http://www.secondtalk.com/can-long-distance-relationships-really-work-out/#comment-578 I've been in a long distance relationship for 8 months now, and never even met the girl. It can be done, you just have to stay strong, and learn to trust each other, and in the end it will work out. I’ve been in a long distance relationship for 8 months now, and never even met the girl. It can be done, you just have to stay strong, and learn to trust each other, and in the end it will work out.

]]> By: lonley-one http://www.secondtalk.com/can-long-distance-relationships-really-work-out/comment-page-1/#comment-577 lonley-one Fri, 26 Feb 2010 14:29:50 +0000 http://www.secondtalk.com/can-long-distance-relationships-really-work-out/#comment-577 yes. its been workin for me for 5 years on feb. its hard and painful at time but as long as u got love its all good yes. its been workin for me for 5 years on feb.
its hard and painful at time but as long as u got like its all excellent

]]> By: aj0860 http://www.secondtalk.com/can-long-distance-relationships-really-work-out/comment-page-1/#comment-576 aj0860 Fri, 26 Feb 2010 13:30:57 +0000 http://www.secondtalk.com/can-long-distance-relationships-really-work-out/#comment-576 1st of all, You don't trust him. This can be one of two things-(a) you caught him in the past cheating on you. (b) you are insecure with yourself. Long distance relationships can and do work if both parties believe and trust in themselves and each other. 1st of all, You don’t trust him. This can be one of two things-(a) you caught him in the past cheating on you. (b) you are insecure with yourself. Long distance relationships can and do work if both parties believe and trust in themselves and each other.

]]> By: KJR http://www.secondtalk.com/can-long-distance-relationships-really-work-out/comment-page-1/#comment-575 KJR Fri, 26 Feb 2010 13:21:24 +0000 http://www.secondtalk.com/can-long-distance-relationships-really-work-out/#comment-575 Depends how Long Distance. If you can see each other every so often, like every other weekend or month then yeah, I'm sure it can. But if you wont be able to see each other for extremely long periods it's far too difficult. And as for being faithful, talk to him about your fears. But they are very painful. Depends how Long Distance. If you can see each other every so often, like every other weekend or month then yeah, I’m sure it can. But if you wont be able to see each other for extremely long periods it’s far too hard.
And as for being faithful, talk to him about your fears.
But they are very painful.

]]> By: LedHead http://www.secondtalk.com/can-long-distance-relationships-really-work-out/comment-page-1/#comment-574 LedHead Fri, 26 Feb 2010 12:26:57 +0000 http://www.secondtalk.com/can-long-distance-relationships-really-work-out/#comment-574 The "Odds" are AGAINST YOU! Very Rarely, does it work out. It takes Tremendous~ "Emotional-Intelligence" for it to work out! The “Odds” are AGAINST YOU!
Very Rarely, does it work out.

It takes Tremendous~
“Emotional-Acumen”
for it to work out!

]]> By: sweet_thang http://www.secondtalk.com/can-long-distance-relationships-really-work-out/comment-page-1/#comment-573 sweet_thang Fri, 26 Feb 2010 11:35:48 +0000 http://www.secondtalk.com/can-long-distance-relationships-really-work-out/#comment-573 the truth is, yes you can get hurt. bad. but if you feel your love is strong enough to withstand things or ppl trying to break you up, then its worth a shot. its your judgement call girl! the truth is, yes you can get hurt. terrible. but if you feel your like is strong enough to survive things or ppl trying to break you up, then its worth a shot. its your judgement call girl!

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