Can long distance relationships really work out?
I lіkе thіѕ guy, аnd hе lіkеѕ mе. I know thаt I саn bе faithful, bυt I don’t know іf I саn trust hіm tο bе faithful. It’s nοt thаt I don’t trust hіm, іt’s hіѕ ex-girlfriend аnd thе way ѕhе іѕ wіth hіm. I basically want tο know іf long distance relationships аrе worth thе pain thаt I mау possibly possibly endure.
no i dont reflect their worth it but i mean at the end is about how you feel
if you like each other enough.
it worked for me.
Your Relationship DUNNO.
But I’ve seen tons of online “like” work to marriage. seems to last longer .
I’m sorry but they dont work. I’m 13 and I go across state last year and I had a boyfriend. We talked om the phone nearly everyday, but finally I had to break up with him cuz I had’nt seen him in like 2 monthes.
sorry
Look, to tell you the truth, NO!
it never works out. i mean you can trust him a lot, but at the end it never works out because you dont see him and your like pasion beome greater and you have to take it out with somebody. it has happened with me. Sorry. but i would say go for it, like is like a rollercoster it has its ups and downs
Not if you don’t trust him.
it really isnt. the fact that he isnt around and you dont know whats going on or if you may possibly trust him or not isnt worth it. theres going to be soo many things going on inside your head and its going to kill you that you cant be with him as much. it might work out for the first 2 months or so, but if you have doubts about innocent him and his events then its not gona work out.
most of the time long distances dont work, but you can try. its a lot of hassle but if you 2 are that close it may possibly work out:) worth a try:) just end it when you cant take it any longer
I don’t reflect they work out. I tried a couple times but public don’t really have that much trust for other public. The only problem is the whole trust issue. If you really like this person, then maybe you should have the long distance relationship.
it all depends.You definetly need trust and faithfulness for a long distance relationship to work. I would know because my ex. boyfriend lived 3 hours away, and we were together a excellent 6 months. They are definetly worth it if you like your man that much.
no long distance relationships dont last that long.
No, I was in your position two years ago and I still find myself regretting it today.
If you’re skeptical, just let it wait until you can be together and something that won’t work because you might not be meant to be together. just wait it out and everything will be okay. i know it seems hard but there is this quote that i like it goes, “if you can’t be with the one you like, like the one you’re with.”
its all about innocent eachother. my dad is in the military so he has had to leave for several deployments and my parents have been together for over 20 years
Long distance relationships do work out. It takes lots of work but it can be done.
On a separate issue, if you reflect there is a problem with his ex-girlfriend, talk to him about it. Honesty is the best answer in any situation. And if he has a problem with it, either keep talking to him about it or let it go and trust him.
not really cause if she haven’t seen him before or really know him like that she may possibly be in danger BUT she know him so thats okay but i wouldn’t do it cause i won’t see my boyfriend everyday
I have had a couple of long distance relationships that did not last long. In the end, it did not work out because both of us felt we needed more nearness.
I did have some pain in my last relationship because when I went to visit my boyfriend I establish out he was engaged to be married.
So it goes….
I’ve heard instances where the whole LDR does work out.
The distress I reflect with them though is you spend all your time in honeymoon mode meaning every time you see each other it is like you just met and you stay in the feeling of constant infatuation. Makes for a really excellent time for sure, but long term you need to really be talking about issues that will take the relationship to more of a permanent level. It is my feeling you won’t want to spoil the limited time you have together talking about serious issues as that would surely ruin the mood.
And as far as trust goes, if you don’t reflect you can trust him, the relationship won’t work no topic if it is LDR or not.
Wow, I am in one too and will be coming up for the answers. Is your a temporary long distance or permanent? How long have you known him and how long have you out-of-date? Is the ex there? Really get the you can be faithful but can he thing… Can you IM me to talk?
Hi, im currently in a VERY long distance relationship and its working sweet excellent so yeah thats fine
, about the faithful part its all about wether you really trust him. Tell him how you are feeling and how you are worried about his ex.
Also i personally reflect long distance relationships are fantastic because it makes seeing your partner so much more special.
Hope this helped
the truth is, yes you can get hurt. terrible. but if you feel your like is strong enough to survive things or ppl trying to break you up, then its worth a shot. its your judgement call girl!
The “Odds” are AGAINST YOU!
Very Rarely, does it work out.
It takes Tremendous~
“Emotional-Acumen”
for it to work out!
Depends how Long Distance. If you can see each other every so often, like every other weekend or month then yeah, I’m sure it can. But if you wont be able to see each other for extremely long periods it’s far too hard.
And as for being faithful, talk to him about your fears.
But they are very painful.
1st of all, You don’t trust him. This can be one of two things-(a) you caught him in the past cheating on you. (b) you are insecure with yourself. Long distance relationships can and do work if both parties believe and trust in themselves and each other.
yes. its been workin for me for 5 years on feb.
its hard and painful at time but as long as u got like its all excellent
I’ve been in a long distance relationship for 8 months now, and never even met the girl. It can be done, you just have to stay strong, and learn to trust each other, and in the end it will work out.
yes they are. in the end they are worth it. im in one right now. and im not saying i despise it but its just not the right scale because i struggle constantly with him, but i can honestly say if you like someone that you shouldnt be worried about it.. like conquers all & so your just gonna have to trust them.
Well, if you REALLY want your relationship to work out, then you should be able to trust him. And I know that it will be hard for you to do, but you have to trust him if you really like him.
Now, to answer if LDR (Yeah, long distance relationships) can work out, my answer is that you should let the guy to be independent. No guy (or female) likes to be controlled. Let him have his free time. If you haven’t really seen him flirt with this other girl, then you should have no problem at all. Furthermore, i reflect you should try and talk things out with him; let him know how you feel about this. But don’t go yet to be and be like “I saw you with her! YEAAH you’re cheating on me. Are you? i want an answer!” because that can only make him cheat on you and get away from you. Don’t question him every small of the day. Don’t question him where was he, who was he with, what was he doing…, because that is really annoying. I know you might want to be naive and wonder if he’s cheatin on you, but don’t overly do it. Don’t even THINK about followin him, because he might reflect you really don’t trust him. Have a time to hang out with YOUR friends and don’t be so available to him. Hang up the phone: What I mean is, if you are mission him 24/7, STOP. Have a social life of your own. Start a class, idk, do something fun that you delight in!
Well, i hope this works out for you. Excellent luck =)
Yes, and they work out fantastic! I’ve been in one going on 3 years March 25th. I live in NY and she lives in MO. Its tough, requires a lot of patients and even more trust. But we both couldn’t be more pleased! Excellent luck!!!!!!!
i have one im 14 shes 16 i have my doughts at times but its thriving so far i like her lol you can call it whatever you want any one can but ido and i would still like her if we werent together and do whatever i can to help i dread the day im 16 shell be 18 and its ilegal i reflect it may possibly last that long because what we haves sweet consistante