Are long distance relationships ever really worth it?
I аm іn a long distance relationship rіght now, аnd lеt mе tеll уου іt’s bееn one οf thе toughest things I’ve еνеr hаd tο dο. I know thаt things hаνе tο bе thіѕ way fοr now, mу qυеѕtіοn tο уου though, іѕ, whаt аrе уουr opinions οn long distance relationships? I саn’t gο see mу boyfriend until next year, bесаυѕе οf transportational issues, аnd bесаυѕе οf lack οf expenses. Hе lives аbουt 450 miles away.
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im not in a long distance relationship my bf only lives 30 min away and thats terrible enough.
personaly i reflect its too much hassle,
too much paranoya
too much missing eachother,
too much going insane because you cant just kiss him wenever you want.
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I had a long distance relationship when i was young,
I was in Canada and he was in Italy. He had to go back home with summer has finished, because of school. Huge time difference -_-
We saw each other every summer, the same house we meet. Honestly, this was the best because during the school year we may possibly concentrate on the work, but still keep in upset once in a while. Therefore, every summer, we went back to where we met, he came back and visited me there, or he would apply for an employment there
We communicated improbably i’d say. haha, but it was alot of work, I use to get up at 6am to talk to him for for a few hours because he would be on lunch break, then his school has finished. Due to the time difference. At times i would be able to talk to him in the evening, but he would be staying up late… it was once in a while that. We also kept in upset the ancient fashion way, we would enter letters, and send gifts and what not. As well we traveled alot w/ family so we would send postcards from our travels
I honestly reflect things would have worked quite well, if we were older. As the years went by, we were more into school, priorities, sports, and such… things in end didn’t work out, but hey it lasted sweet long. If we were older and had a career or what not, thing may possibly work out…who knows the future is unknown
I feel fantastic about the relationship, i mean it was very excellent experience, the only terrible thing about it was you would miss the person so often because there weren’t at arm reach, or a phone call away…but the time you spent together made the moments feel so precious. Therefore, i was sweet content with it, but is sad that things didn’t work out so well in the end
Honestly, many would say that long relationships sucks and what not…but it take two to make the effort, it takes trust and it takes a lot of communication. It takes more time for the relationship to grow because they are far away..therefore things work out relatively slower. I do believe that many would work out if they place effort into, surprise visits, enter letters and what not… it would work out. They are a fantastic way to build up a relationship because you have priorites to take care off, and when you are together, trust me, the moments are priceless, its not like seeing them everyday every time… i find it makes the relationship absolutely special in that way.
i’ve only been in one long distance relationship [he lived 3 hrs away] & it didn’t end up working because it was so hard to see him . i don’t reflect they really work except the public have been together for years . one of my bestfriends’ boyfriends got sent to rehab so she couldnt see him for 5 months but they still made it work . it all depends on how much you care/want to be with that person . excellent luck=]
My girl is like 1200 miles away. And i talk to her everyday, and sure the physical is vital. But int isn’t the most vital. Like and respect is the most vital. And the longer you two are apart the more special having sex will be. But public are all different, you may not be able to do it, But i reflect there worth it in the long run. As long as it is conceivably doable to see your other half of course it’s worth it!
I wish mine was only 450 miles away we are 3500 miles away with an ocean separating us. It was worth it in my case we met in Sept 07 saw each other usually every 4 months and were married last month. I will be joining him in the UK with my Visa comes through.
I’m not going to lie LDRs are a lot of work but doable if you both have the same goal of being together no topic what. We speak every day and use the webcam as much as doable. It’s normal to have occasional jealousy and loneliness but you have to trust each other or it won’t work. I reflect being older benefited me also, I have had plenty of relationships and knew this guy was the one in any case of where he lived.
If your meant to be together then it will happen
Excellent Luck
Stay with them, in the end, its worth it<3
that depends on whether or not you’re keen to make it work. I’m in a long distance relationship and its going fantastic for me. he lives 300 miles away and we’ve been going out for two months and i see him every summer which sucks but our time together is so special its the best relationship ive ever been in because we really like each other and we have the will to make it work. but innocent each other is the most vital thing in the relationship i trust my boyfriend. he has never done anything with a girl which makes it simpler for me to trust him haha but thats beside the point but we really trust each other. some may say its not worth it but the public who have really experienced it know for sure that its worth it.
excellent luck i know you two will have the time of your lives together.