Comments on: Any tips for getting over a turbulent relationship?

By: Michele K

Michele K — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 03:15:38 +0000

The best thing you might do is live in another house, surround yourself with other public, but still family and your real friends, those who really like you and find and explore yourself through new challenges and new experiences, e.g. travel to a new house, do things you always wanted to do and just delight in yourself without any strings and hopefully you will find a nice person you have deserved and who have deserved you. That is the only thing yu can do. As you remember I told you that earlier on. Excellent luck from me for you – Michael

By: chany

chany — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 02:57:54 +0000

meet public online, harmless flirting will take your mind of him and give u the attention you crave now he is gone, also recieving and answering messages will be fun and exciting. Try faceparty thats a excellent one!! or take up a leisure activity, something you really delight in! try to remember how life was when you were release and what kept you busy then?! and stay strong girl!! life has so much more to place forward!!!! you dont need to be in an despondent or unhealthy relationship!! excellent luck xx

By: bassoplenty

bassoplenty — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 02:56:19 +0000

When a relationship ends in my life, excellent or terrible, I always try to maintain this attitude:

The relationship ending is possibly the best thing that ever may possibly have happened to me.

This does not mean I’m bitter, resentful, or discontent being in the relationship.

I’ve had fantastic relationships end simply because we both agreed we didn’t have the makings of a life long commitment.

So….if you take the attitude that the relationships end opens the door to an infinite number of things you couldn’t of had while in the relationship……

something incredible happens….

yeah, you can still miss them, be hurt, sad, etc….all the normal things that come with the end of a relationship.

But at the same time, with the above attitude….the stars start to align, you be converted into aware of all the new possibilities that await, and you find fantastic joy in a variety of things you would never have known should you have stayed in the relationship.

Granted, simpler said than done. But, what other “healthy” way is there to look at it?

By: Kung-Ming Chiu

Kung-Ming Chiu — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 02:20:50 +0000

Simple. Just go on with your lone life. You have been very stupid to live with him for 2 years and you were not married to him. You let him use your body for sex for 2 years?! Obviously you only live with him for sex and not for like, or you two should had been married. When there is no like, no sex and no nothing, go on and get another sexual partner. You sure can try another rocky relationship, no messy divorces anyway.